Simi Shares Friendship Assessment Hot Take That Has Netizens Reacting

The Nigerian singer-songwriter Simi has posted some wise words on social media on the value of maintaining one’s personal space and the actual meaning of friendship. Simi cautioned against calling anyone you happen to call a “friend,” saying that not everyone deserves this designation. She stressed that someone must guard their personal space and be picky about who they let into their hearts and spirits, noting that infrequent pleasant vibes or informal contacts do not always make someone a best friend.

She explains how it’s critical to realize that no one’s life is centred around another individual and that it’s acceptable for opinions and feelings to diverge. She strongly emphasizes the value of personal autonomy and respecting one another’s viewpoints. Acknowledging this will help cultivate more accepting and understanding relationships.

In her words:

“Y’all just be calling ANYBODY your friend and then act surprised when they act like your enemy. You can be cool or vibe with someone every once in a while, but that def does not mean you’re now besties. Protect your space and stop giving every single person that made you smile once access to your heart and spirit.

And this might be hard to hear (read) – but sometimes when you’re riding hard for someone that is not doing the same for you, it’s not always because they don’t like you or that they’re “bad friends” they probably just never really saw you the same way. you saw then.

That. Is. Okay.

Nobody’s life revolves around you except your own. Choose the people that choose you too. If you’re confused, communicate.

Now stand up from your pity party and have a great day today”

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